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11 August 2006

[NLP] Cartesian Logic

Anyone who had studied mathematics would be familiar with the cartesian coordinates..
A little bit of info about the cartesian system. As shown in the figure above, there are 4 quadrants in the cartesian system.
1st quadrant: positive X positive Y
2st quadrant: positive X negative Y
3st quadrant: negative X positive Y
4st quadrant: negative X negative Y

In mathematics, the cartesian system is one of the many essential system. This is usually used to plot a graph in order to find out the characteristic of an equation or to to dictate a behaviour of a system.

But did you know that this system can also be applied to language??
In NLP (Neuro-linguistic programming), there is a technique known as cartesian questioning..
While asking questions, there are actually 4 ways on how to go about it.
For eg: Why did you do that?
1st quadrant: What would happen if u do that?
2st quadrant: What would happen if u did not do that?
3st quadrant: What would not happen if u do that?
4st quadrant: What would not happen if u did not do that?

Same question structure, 4 different ways of asking with different answer(s) to each question.
Usually people only use the 1st quadrant questioning technique in their life.
But if you are able to use all 4 quadrants of questioning tackfully, you can make them discover something that they would never have come cross their mind. In other words, you can actually help people discover about themselves, or help them helping themselves making important decisions.
Or if you use the 4 quadrant questioning on yourself, you will soon find out that you are entering into a state of breakthrough.
Most of the time, you will be able to come out with additional reasons previously unthought of....

This is a pretty useful technique to psycho people.
When i mention psycho, i actually meant 'to confuse them' or 'make their brain go haywire'.

Master this technique, and it will someday bring success to you.

09 August 2006

Blue Mountain Trip

Blue Mountain....a famous tourist place in sydney. Cool weather coupled with breath-taking sceneries and a little bit of adventure, the perfect combination for those who seeks serenity and beauty within nature...

A place where i've been to last saturday (5/8/2006). Ahhh...dun you guys just love those sweet no-work weekends??

I was just tagging along with a bunch of 30 'CG(Caregroup) church' people. I have to give credit to Lissya and Micheal for their persistant effort in 'convincing' me to go along with them...

Yup, initially i didn't want to follow them. Not being a christian, I fear that i'll be one of those odd one out among that bunch of people. Furthermore, I'm kind of a introvert who stays at home lazying around, busying trying to do nothing at all... But when they mentioned 'bush-walking' in Blue Mountain, I got turned on!!! Perhaps that's the closest thing in australia to jungle trekking in a forrest. You have no idea how long i've been icthing for some outdoor outings...




The one standing in the middle is Lissya, and the one on the left is vincent. Both of them are members of the famous 'Day Avenue Gang'.. In the photo, we were standing at this place known as 'echo point'. Its like a cliff and we were on top of it.
[Yup, thats the Lissya who managed to convince me to blue mountain.]


These guys in the photo are just half the group i went with... Remember 'echo point'?? Well, this is the the pathway leading down away from 'echo point'...all the way down to the cliff's 'ground point'. So, i'm with a bunch of 20 people who wants to go down... Towards 3/4 of the journey down, some of them just weren't motivated enough to finish the journey.. And that's where they took a 180 degrees turn and went back up to echo point.


Actually, the only people who managed to continue all the way down to 'ground point' were (from left to right) Me, Kevin, Micheal and Vincent...
[Yup, that's the micheal who managed to convince me to blue mountain.]


Welcome to 'ground point'. The lowest point where the pathway ends...


Below are pictures of the heavenly blue mountain taken from 'echo point'.
[Pictures taken by Lissya]



06 August 2006

What are friends for?

A picture paints a thousand words.
Enjoy!

03 August 2006

Sticker [Comment]

This message was post in Ms.Polaris' blog:
*Kok Fye, all our kids got karate black belts (dun play-play!!!). My sons will be really good in maths, my daughters will be really good in drawing and they make stickers with their father everyday (*pengsan). Soon enough, we'll own a sticker shop in Sydney. =D
Haha, someone complimented on my sticker-making skills. And that was enough to keep me smiling for the day..
:)

Do u have a strong desire to take a look at my sticker collections??
Well well, here it is: Cyan's Sticker Collection
My precious collection. I know the designs are limited in number, I'm still proud of my collections. Probably its because of the effort i've spent on each of them...